Stop Waiting For The Scale To Say You're Enough Choose to love yourself now, and use fitness as a way of expressing that love not earning it. When I started my weight loss journey, I didn't start it from a place of love. I started it from a place of hate. I hated my body. I hated the way I looked. And that hate had a favorite hobby: comparing myself to every woman who had the curvaceous figure I thought I was supposed to have. I'd scroll, I'd stare, I'd wish and then I'd come